Magnetic Personality: There are two types of persons as regard personality is concerned. One, they brighten the room when they come in and the other; they brighten the room, when they leave it. Every one of us must honestly evaluate personality trait of the self and know as to which category we belong?
Every person in this world wants to be loved by others. He wants to be popular and considered important. He also wants that he should always be remembered after his demise. But they do not know how to do it?
Nature has given every being divine power of personal magnetism. It is inherent in each and every individual. But there are majority of people living on this earth, who are not aware of their power of magnetism. God has given everyone several qualities but most of them do not use them. They sometimes obstruct the flow of divine magnetism within them with their negative and detrimental habits. There are only few people who knew this art of maintaining and nourishing this flow and sustain charisma of magnetism.
There is countless number of people who are trying to build magnetism through outward appearance. They will use all sort of cosmetics, expensive dresses and accessories to look attractive. These techniques may create attraction for few moments but it is not a permanent solution for creating magnetic personality. Here are given few useful tips for maintaining flow of divine powers that gives you magnetic personality.
Love and compassion are inherent but wonderful qualities to be practiced by every one. Your love must be freely available to everyone. Love entire creation of God. Love people irrespective of their color, creed, cast, gender, religion, nationality or any other consideration. Your love must also be freely available to all living organism and plants. Love this planet earth and entire universe. Make your being compassionate. Your love and compassion will help you to develop Magnetic Personality.
Growing habit of selfishness in society is the root cause of several problems of today including crime and degradation of values. Selflessness is an ideal virtue. Your habit of compassion coupled with selflessness multiplies your magnetism. Selfish people are wicked and cannot love anyone including their near and dear ones. They are not liked by anyone. Developing an attitude of selflessness helps increasing your acceptability. Do not try to deceive or cheat others nor should you think of harming others for your selfish gains. It is a big sin in the eyes of Almighty God and therefore must not be practiced altogether. .Learn to pay more attention to the needs of others. Get happiness from giving joy to others and developing habit of selflessness. It will certainly add magnetism to your personality.
From early childhood every one of us has always been taught by our parents and teachers that “honesty is the best policy”. They were right. Honesty is really the best policy. But over the years when we grow up and found that most of the people are more or less practicing dishonesty. Each and every individual have probably told many small lies and half truths throughout their lives. Honesty in fact is an essential habit for identifying who you really are? It must be practiced at every level of our lives. Those they frequently speak lies are not worthy to deserve good things in life. Lying, cheating, stealing etc. robs your magnetism. Being honest requires high level of self discipline. For frequent liars it may seem difficult to practice honesty in the beginning. But with continuous practice one will learn that it is much easier to practice honesty and is gradually increasing reliability, credibility and magnetism.Practicing honesty provides trust, intimacy and lasting love.
Let generosity be an integral part of your life. Be generous in all that you do. Praise others, speak a kind word, have a listening ear. Help those they are in need. Help them with your money, materials, time, books, stationary and any other way you find it suitable. Help giving your cloths and other usable items them. Give selflessly. In Bible it is said, “Feed the hungry and help those in trouble. Then your light will shine out from the darkness and the darkness around you will be as bright as noon.” (Isaiah 58:10). Use your abilities to help those in need, where your time, money and talents come together to meet the needs of others. Use you time for some noble, fruitful way to benefit others. There are several ways you can help others with time, money and materials. Practice caring and Generosity adds magnetism to your personality.
Every person living on this planet is an important person. Respect everyone. Be courteous and compassionate to them. It is rightly said, “Do unto others as you would have them do unto you.” The same principle hold good in gaining respect from others. It is two way passages. If you want others to respect you, always keep in mind to develop a habit of respecting others. Stop altogether criticizing them for their faults. Nor should you bad mouth people. Don’t insult them or make fun of them. Don’t mock them or tease them. Maintain healthy relationship with others. In case you do not like some of others actions or habits, it is advisable to speak with them and resolve the issue. Acknowledge and honor others opinions and beliefs Apologize when you know that you are wrong. Respect is one of the most important elements in any successful long term relationship. Respect is not given, it is earned. Your attitude of giving respect to others will attract people towards you.
Practicing to maintain silence is one of the noble habits every person must learn. Instead of speaking filthy language, passing derogatory remarks, abusing and criticizing others or using negative words against anyone, it is better to maintain silence. You cannot hurt anyone with your silence. Carelessly used words hamper relationships and demagnetize your personality. It doesn’t imply that you shouldn’t speak. However you must be assured of speaking carefully selected words that add attraction to your personality. Use kind and positive words in your conversation.
Maintain Happy Disposition:
Happiness is a matter of choice. Hence you must choose to remain happy in all situations. It is your attitude that makes you feel happy. Several situations are created in everyone’s life everyday. You too would be experiencing various situations. Some may be pleasing while the other would not be so pleasing. But you must have control over them. Look at the brighter side of every situation. Do not think of negativism and difficulties in life. Appreciate what you have. Maintain optimistic outlook. You must surround yourself with happy people. When you are happy, it is easier for you to maintain happy disposition and give happiness to others. Never ever compare yourself with others. You are unique and one of the most distinguished personalities ever born on this earth. Never blame others for your troubles. Keep smiling and help others smiling. People are attracted towards those who maintain happy disposition.
Forgiveness has been regarded as one of the most courageous acts of human nature. In forgiveness you decide to let go of resentment and thoughts of revenge against someone. It makes a way for compassion, kindness, peace, harmony and cheerfulness. If you are at war with others, you cannot be at peace with yourself. Forgiveness is one of the finest gifts you can give to yourself. The one who readily forgives others and seeks forgiveness for his faults; experiences less anger, less stress and less depression. He also develops optimism, hope and attitude of universal brotherhood. Forgiveness is an excellent prescription for good health and more happiness in life. Forgiveness leads you to overall physical and mental health. People, who learn to forgive others, report significantly fewer symptoms of several ailments including hypertension, headache, diabetes, upset stomach and many more diseases. Forgiveness improves your concentration and intelligence. Forgiveness heals all your painful emotions. Forgiveness frees you from obsessive thoughts. Forgiveness adds magnetism to your personality. Forgiveness adds glory to your name and fame. There is no substitute for forgiveness behavior. Hence you must cultivate habit of forgiving others and seeking forgiveness for your faults.
Develop Habit of Gratitude:
Gratitude is considered to the master key that opens all doors of possibilities. It is something more than saying superficial thank you. Be thankful in different circumstances. When universe sees that you are grateful for what you have, it will send you more of what you want. If someone has been kind to you, be thankful. If someone does something nice to you, share your happiness with the person and send him thankfulness card. Demonstrate your gratitude in your actions every day. Sometimes you do not have control over circumstances but you have control over yourself. Make a commitment to practice gratitude. Find opportunities to express your gratitude to others. Let gratitude be your first thought after awakening at morning and also last thought of the day before sleeping. Your attitude of gratitude adds magnetism to your personality.
Developing Positive Habits:
Positivism is a mental attitude that seeks to find successful outcome. It is a state of mind that has a great influence in making the right actions and right decisions. Having positive attitude is a choice that only you can make for you. Feeling good does not depend on external circumstances but on the quality of your thinking. Be aware of your thoughts and develop habit of seeing positive side of every situation that comes in your day to day activities. Even in adverse circumstances do not lose hope. Positive thinking plays significant role in feeling good and stay active. It brings inner peace, success, improved relationships, better health, happiness, sense of achievement and increased personal magnetism. It improves daily affairs of life and makes life bright and promising.
These are the perfect recipe for creating magnetism in you and establishing humane values and peace in your life. Start practicing and reach successfully on the top of the world.
Quotes For Thoughts
“What’s in a name? That which we call a rose
by any other name would smell as sweet.” ~ William Shakespeare
“Man’s main task in life is to give birth to himself, to become what he potentially is. The most important product of his effort is his own personality.” ~ Erich Fromm
“The art of being yourself at your best is the art of unfolding your personality into the person you want to be. . . . Be gentle with yourself, learn to love yourself, to forgive yourself, for only as we have the right attitude toward ourselves can we have the right attitude toward others.” ~ Wilfred A. Peterson
“The direction of a man’s thought is always the decisive factor in his personality. His whole outer life will be determined by the inward inclination of his mind.” ~ Erich Sauer
“Certainly it is a world of scarcity. But the scarcity is not confined to iron ore and available land. The most constricting scarcities are those of character and personality.” ~ William R Allen
“The best way to sell yourself to others is first to sell the others to yourself. Check yourself against this list of obstacles to a pleasing personality, interrupting others, sarcasm, vanity, being a poor listener, insincere flattery, finding fault, challenging others, without good cause giving unsolicited advice, complaining attitude of superiority, envy of others’ success, poor posture and dress.” ~ Unknown
“I want to be the kind of person that kind people like and want to be like.” ~ Jarod Kintz
“An attitude of positive expectation is the mark of the superior personality.” ~ Brian Tracy
“Always be yourself, express yourself, have faith in yourself, do not go out and look for a successful personality and duplicate it.” ~ Bruce Lee
At the heart of personality is the need to feel a sense of being lovable without having to qualify for that acceptance.” ~ Paul Tournier